Who do women beautify for?

We live in a society where every click on Instagram is a beautiful woman, every walk in the mall or somewhere on the street is a beautiful face and a perfect body. The world has never been so full of beautiful women in every sense of the word.

In fact, beauty today is in the consciousness of every girl, as a duty that must be done. Sometimes drawing eyebrows nowadays is even more important than brushing teeth in the morning. Because physical beauty is now more than a responsibility, not only for women but also for men.

Have you ever asked: "Who do I beautify myself for?"

Who do women really beautify themselves for? To make men and the world admire them, or simply for themselves?

Beauty is an innate instinct

I believe there is one thing that most women have done at least once: put on makeup, spray perfume, look at themselves, then take it off or go to bed. For men, women putting on makeup when they are home alone is probably still a bit of a mystery. When no one is looking at you, do you need to look good? Forget taking selfies or videos, if it is really just for you and for you, would you put on makeup to look at yourself in the mirror?

Becoming beautiful and learning how to be beautiful is an instinct that always exists in every woman, and they always know how to do it perfectly!

Men (want to understand but) will never understand, but perhaps in some aspect, women have always been beautifying themselves without anyone looking at them, simply because they want to remember how beautiful they look. This instinct has been there since childhood, when beauty was something innately haunted, when little girls tried to secretly use their grandmother's or mother's makeup to practice applying it.

Most women are like that, they are born without anyone teaching them, they have the natural and skillful instinct to beautify themselves. Like flowers, they do not wait for someone to admire them to bloom, a true woman understands that beauty is the 5th basic need of life (Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs), and they respect themselves whenever possible, whether someone admires them or not (they are even more gorgeous when they are home alone).

And when beauty is a way of respecting others

But if someone asks me, when are women most beautiful, I will say on the first dates and after divorce. There is one thing that every man has experienced, which is having to sit for hours waiting for his girl to stand in front of the mirror "picking up" countless dresses, trying on countless makeup styles before going out, especially when walking with you.

You may complain forever but she will never change that "process", because you will never be able to imagine how much a girl worries, how much she thinks to prepare and appear like the most beautiful flower on a date.

Women are most beautiful on first dates. Do you agree?

And trust me, the more sophisticated and beautiful a girl looks on a date, the more important you are to her. No matter how hard you try to deny it, women have always been beautifying themselves with the deepest purpose of impressing the opposite sex. They can put on makeup, admire themselves and go to bed, but it is still better to do everything to prepare for someone to admire them. It is an instinct that has been embedded in our genes for a long time, men go to conquer, and women have to be seductive.

And as mentioned above, women after divorce are surprisingly beautiful. Maybe they themselves don't even realize it. When the responsibilities of the family, the burden of being a wife and daughter-in-law are removed, their spirit is liberated, open to receive positive energy, and naturally, they will be more beautiful. That beauty is a mixture of experience, strength, resilience and charm.

Women after divorce often become strangely beautiful. They may be miserable and exhausted in the beginning, but when that time has passed, their beauty officially shines.

Not only in love, but also in social relationships, business, diplomacy, and colleagues, beauty is a basic principle in communication. Knowing how to coordinate clothes, do your hair, apply makeup, or choose accessories will bring you more advantages than you think.

Women today are aware of that, so they learn how to make themselves beautiful to suit each situation. As for women, be honest with me, don't tell me you don't need anyone to see you beautiful! I think that if you are a beautiful woman, you should naturally be seen, respected and praised.

Beauty is a basic principle in communication. Knowing how to coordinate clothes, do hair, makeup or choose accessories will bring you more advantages than you think.

A beautiful rose alone in the middle of the forest will wither in silence, but if watered and watched, I believe it will bloom longer and more splendidly. Is there anything wrong with women still going out every morning, wearing their most beautiful dresses, wearing the most romantic scents, hoping that a man will appear and admire them?

Conclude

“Women love with their ears” has never been wrong. From the toughest to the softest girls, they always like to hear compliments, especially about their beauty. So the world would be a little more peaceful if every gentleman knew that women like to be complimented. But perhaps nowadays, just complimenting women on their beauty is a bit superficial and lacking in depth. Then, you will wonder, so how should you compliment women? Maybe next time you should try starting with a question: “I am not the first person to compliment you on your beauty, right?” That is my opinion.

And you guys, tell me, who do you think makes women beautiful?

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